This situation is only relevant if you're married or at least living together.Nefarious86 wrote: ↑Wed Apr 04, 2018 6:54 amNo im not, tho I've been in long term relationships and never once felt the need to tell my significant other that they can't save for something they want nor have I been told I can't save for what I want. Why should being with someone substantially change things, if you earn enough to save for toys then why can't you have them. Honest question, it's not like after you buy something the money you were saving vanishes from your budget.eric01 wrote:Lol! you must not be married or have kids!
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Your SO is gonna argue that saving up for that new kitchen that means absolutely nothing to you is significantly more important than saving up for that new wheelset that means absolutely nothing to her. And she kinda has a point, too, considering that the whole family benefits from the kitchen while the new bike/wheelset/frameset is for you and you alone.