I'm also 41, ride just about every day, and have slowed down my racing due to kids and career demands on my time. I've also owned some elite bikes, and currently my race bike is a Venge, and I commute to work occasionally on my beater, my former race bike, a Tarmac Pro.inertianinja wrote: ↑Fri Dec 31, 2021 10:30 pmI just turned 41. I ride every day, but I stopped racing years ago due to kids and career demands on my time. I've owned some decent bikes - Felt AR1, Cervelo S2, etc.
I've scratched my itch over the last few years simply by buying used framesets from fellow racers who change bikes like they change chamois cream. The market is bonkers now in terms of price and scarcity for many items, but it won't be this way forever. I'd personally look for quality used frames if you can be patient.
I don't know how many kids you have, but we're committed to paying for 3 college educations for ours, so $10k+ bikes are out of the question for me so buying used framesets is the way to go for me.