I'm getting older and thinking about a more relaxed ride. I wonder if any of you have experience with Boulder Bikes All road. it looks like a nice frame for the money. Any advice on randonneur frames( under 2k) would be appreciated. Also: I am trying to find bike clothing that doesn't look like bike clothing. Suggestions?

Can't help with the frame, but Creux velowear is fantastic. I'm a big fan of their jeans/shorts with the inbuilt chamois for riding to work and being able to spend the whole day in them and ride home without even thinking.
Only problems: astronomically expensive (well, for me anyway, but I am in the midst of 3895272938 years of uni), and availability is ridiculously sparse. Fingers crossed they deliver on the promise of november for a lot of their more popular options.

http://www.creuxcycling.com/